The Woman You're With Will Destroy Your Life
There’s been a huge controversy that just exploded over on X. Some chick LARPing as a trad-wife Catholic virgin was found out to be cheating on her soon to be/already married husband (idk the specifics, they don’t matter in this context) the whole time with a different man (her boss I think, idk what she does).
And while this may seem to a lot of you as a severe gut punch even imagining this scenario, you need to sit down, put the phone down for a second, and imagine this reality. Because so many more men have this existence, they just don’t know it yet.
They may be seeing a girl and not know this will be their fate.
They may already be dating a girl for some time now, or even married, and not know this will soon be their fate.
They can even be single. Not knowing what future waits for them. Not knowing this too will be their fate.
And why?
Because of the simple truth that your lack of experience in dating and women is going to be the ruin of your life. Your entire future, your personality, the way you brain processes information and emotionally deals with it, will be completely turned upside down from a woman deceiving you a complete 180.
I mean, the sweetest, most innocent looking girls I’ve always found to be some of the most ruthlessly killer. Absolute 180 from their looks to their predatory-likeness when it comes to relationships. A true modern-day siren.
What Should A Man Do To Avoid This Fate?
You must become the more experienced one. Let me break some things down for you:
You cannot tell a woman’s body count.
When you are innocent, young, and inexperienced you’ll believe anything a woman you really like will tell you because you want it to be true more than knowing the truth.
I am here to tell you to take her word with a grain of salt. Her actions and her stories lining up over time is the best metric of actually gauging her body count.
And even then on the topic of bodycount, that’s a conversation most of you will simply not be able to understand, so I’ll save it for a rainy day. Just know. A “virgin-tradwide gf” is bullshit 99% of the time. That LARP has become too accessible to anyone with a phone (every girl in the world) for it to be a matter of chance you met a girl exactly like this "phenomenon" and not intentionally done to finesse a man into marriage, for example.
You must be more experienced than her.
There’s a big reason why I repeat to you all that you must be the one in charge. A woman who wants a “retarded” guy who “retardmaxxes” and has “Golden Retriever energy” will eventually end up despising her man for forcing her to pull the weight of the relationship over time.
Women do not - absolutely do not - know what the fuck they want half the time. Legitimately half the time a woman tells you what she wants from the man, and you’ll see her get with the complete polar opposite. Bitches want what they can’t have. Applies to guys, too.
What nearly all beautiful, feminine, loyal women actually want from their man is a leader. A captain. And no captain is going to succeed well at turbulent seas if he’s inexperienced.
Think of her like your battleship.
If she’s new (inexperienced/undamaged), you will need to spend more time teaching her and yourself on how to better command and use this ship to its full capabilities. But if and once you eventually learn the ins and outs of how to command movement, you’ll end up having the best ship on the sea. Success is within your grasps.
And if she’s used up (experienced or damaged), you won’t need to lead nearly as much because it’s an experienced ship. It knows how to move when you need it to move, not much to learn on this ship. Eventually however, you’ll want to add your own signature style to it, but that will more effort on your part changing around the ship’s blueprint from her previous owners. And if you decide to let the experienced ship take course on “its own” it will eventually crash because at the end of the day, ships needs captains.
You must know how to ride the storm out with your girl, and that only comes from experience.
You need to go on more dates.
I’ve covered this endlessly so I’ll continue.
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Don’t Rush Into The Thing That Could End You
When I was a young man, I wanted to learn everything about dating, getting girls, etc. Now that I’m much older I can thank my younger self for taking initiative on his own and going through years of experiencing different things and constantly dating around that led me to being the man I am today. I worked for it.
Nowadays, most guys are under some idiotic impression that if they focus on themselves, like gym and money, then the right girl will fall on their lap.
And girl may actually start falling into your lap once you are jacked and rich… but because you never had success with girls before you leveled up - back when you needed a hound’s nose and a killer’s instinct - you have zero intuition on whether you’re genuinely with a good woman or a snake in hiding.
So you become one of the biggest targets for experienced/damaged women. A man “at the finish line” they’ve been waiting for, and will now go on to seduce and finesse by getting what they want (attention, money, status, security, etc.) while eventually, or currently, being disloyal and not Queen-like, to say the least.
Do not rush into anything if you’re young. Things aren’t as good as you think they actually are when you’re inexperienced. Life has a tricky way of “gotcha-bitch!”ing gullible people. You must learn to remain cool. You win a big bet. Keep it chill. You lost a big bet. Keep it chill. Learn to keep it smooth and calm. What goes on inside is another story, but I’ve learned that keeping a poker face in times of great emotional spikes is a great aimbot at targeting that cold, operator persona that doesn’t budge or get moved easily.
This is important for dating because you don’t take a woman’s word too seriously where you can play your cards incorrectly. You don’t straight assume she’s lying for everything she says, of course, but you’re definitely not gonna just believe anything either.
I’ll end it here but I of course have so much more I’ll speak on. This is a free post but if you want life-changing, unfiltered information and blueprints on these things, you should subscribe and save yourself a life of issues.
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And if you’d like additional reading on this, you can read any of these:
Things You Must Know About Women Before You Turn 30
The Single Most Important Choice of Your Life
Dating Broke Vs Grinding Celibate