Her Heartstrings Are Yours To Tune
Snatch Her Soul For a Successful Long-Term Relationship
The man controls the relationship. He’s the leader. Point blank. Yes, some guys can pull it off where their women takes lead, sure. It may be good for now, but it’ll blow up in his face sooner or later. A man must have the final say or the woman will resent him eventually for burdening her with the unnatural task of not only running the relationship but the whole family unit. Since we’ve established that, you should be asking how a man can lead the relationship. The answer is by leading her emotions.
Take a guitar. You strum it but it sounds awful. So you tune it properly. It now sounds great. You play it with no problems. Your fingers sometimes get numb, sometimes you get frustrated trying to get a chord just right, but in the end it’s worth it because of the joy this beautiful instrument brings you. With enough play time, you eventually need to tune your guitar. This is mandatory maintenance on any instrument. If you don’t tune it on a frequent basis, entropy will take place — as it naturally does — and displace the notes in chaos. Ruining the playing experience for you. If you tune it improperly, the chords will either play too sharp or too flat. You can’t over tune nor under tune. Has to be right in between, perfectly balanced in the middle. And now you can play again, until the next tuning.
Relationships are one of the most nuanced subjects to talk about. It’s rather tough for me to speak my mind literally because there are so many readers who are filled with garbage philosophies from other shit writers and heartbroken lovers where their baseline understanding of how to conduct a healthy relationship is skewed towards ‘short-term pleasure, long-term disaster’. Those same guys would tune the guitar too much or not enough and eventually the strings will rip right out, or at the very least play a pathetic tune. The player will look in his cut up hands, scratched up face, wondering what went wrong.
Before I dive into some very delicate things involving manipulating and controlling the emotions of your woman to both your benefits, it’s important I preface this by saying that this is not a ‘one-size fits all’ discussion. I cannot possibly be correct about every single man’s relationship with this short text. I cannot possibly know what kind of man you are. The confidence and competence you carry. The obedience your girl already has or lacks for you. There’s just too many variables. However, I can always talk about theory, understandings, and practices based off of my experiences which may deem beneficial to you in yours. I grant you the scripture, what you do with this newfound wisdom is completely up to you.
But understand one thing.
Your woman is the most precious thing to you. You must love her. You must be willing to take a bullet for her and your family if need be. Near everything you do is to for her to smile because she is your favorite. If you don’t believe this, then you and I don’t really have the same philosophy on things. I understand the playboy era. It’s fun. But it’s the least fulfilling era that there is. Legacy building, soul snatching, story-writing adventures with your family is what I find to be the most fulfilling. So if you finally decide to start it with your girl, you need to embody this paragraph. There’s no half-stepping here. She deserves your all because she gives you hers, and more. Love is very delicate. And it works a lot better when both parties are happy.
With that being said, you must not let your emotions take control of your actions. You will have to be cold at times. Take away your attention in very subtle, specific ways, not being overbearing with, either. Punish and reward. And a ton more I cannot cover here. It’s not all butterflies and glitter. The point of this is to gently cover the surface of what it means to control your girl’s emotions to fully benefit the long-term relationship for both of you.
Once again. This is very delicate information. I highly recommend not using this with a woman you don’t see a future with. It’ll ruin her for life. And it’ll definitely return itself onto you. If not in your relationship, then with a close one like your sister, or even your daughter 25 years later. Be an asshole, cool. But be a gentleman asshole. There’s a difference. Know when to apply the bad boy pressure. Don’t make a woman love you on purpose while knowing you want nothing to do with her. That’s plainly evil, and quite frankly, a huge waste of both of your times.
The Original “Hot and Cold”
PUA talk about this compliment to neg shit. It works to degrees but most of you take it too far and say some dumb shit like, “I’m surprised how sexy you are despite the distance between your eyes” or “You’re actually pretty smart for a fucking retard.” This barely works on low quality girls, however it can work on the better ones but it’s a whole skillset knowing how to tone down the insult and increase the praise, as well as how to use it at the right time. Perhaps when she’s warmed up to you. Or if she’s bitchy from the start but you have a feeling she likes to be slightly challenged because you have experience with dating physiognomies. Most don’t. Yet they run with whatever bullshit they get served to them. No good. Won’t find that here.
Instead of talking about PUA hot and cold, I’ll only slightly introduce a very delicate but powerful concept of hot and cold within relationships. I’m talking about you’ve already established boundaries and a relationship. This hot and cold isn’t for getting into her pants, that’s already done. This is for snatching her soul. It’s extremely powerful.
The hot and cold magic goes something like this: